62 Inspiring Shannon L. Alder Quotes (WELLNESS)

Top 10 Most Famous Shannon L. Alder Quotes (BEST)

“If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you’re allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.”
Shannon L. Alder

A best friend is the only one that walks into your life when the world has walked out.

Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which landed in the valley of change. — Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to **freedom**, which landed in the valley of **change**.

Carve your name on hearts, not tombstones. A legacy is etched into the minds of others and the stories they share about you. — Carve your name on hearts, not tombstones. A **legacy** is etched into the minds of others and the stories they share about you.

Anger, resentment and jealousy doesn't change the heart of others - it only changes yours. — Anger, **resentment** and **jealousy** doesn’t **change** the heart of others – it only changes yours.

You will face your greatest opposition when you are closest to your biggest miracle. — You will face your greatest opposition when you are closest to your biggest **miracle**.

There comes a time in your life when you have to choose to turn the page, write another book or simply close it. — There comes a **time** in your life when you have to choose to turn the page, **write** another book or simply close it.

Truth and facts are woven together. However, sometimes facts can blind you from seeing what is actually going on in someone’s life. — **Truth** and facts are woven together. However, sometimes facts can blind you from seeing what is actually going on in someone’s life.

Most misunderstandings in the world could be avoided if people would simply take the time to ask, 'What else could this mean?' — Most misunderstandings in the world could be avoided if people would simply take the time to ask, ‘What else could this mean?’

You are not what others think you are. You are what God knows you are.

19 Shannon L. Alder Quotes About Love

“I have always found it odd that people who think passive aggressively ignoring a person is making a point to them. The only point it makes to anyone is your inability to articulate your point of view because deep down you know you can’t win. It’s better to assert yourself and tell the person you are moving on without them and why, rather than leave a lasting impression of cowardness on your part in a person’s mind by avoiding them.”
Shannon L. Alder

Love doesn’t make the world go ’round,' love is what makes the ride worthwhile. — **Love** doesn’t make the world go ’round,’ love is what makes the ride worthwhile.

Every broken heart has screamed at one time or another: Why can’t you see who I truly am?

Sensitive people either love deeply or they regret deeply. There really is no middle ground because they live in passionate extremes. — Sensitive people either **love** deeply or they **regret** deeply. There really is no middle ground because they live in **passionate** extremes.

Forget what hurt you, but never forget what it taught you.

“If he can’t handle you at your worst then he does not deserve you at your best. Real love means seeing beyond the words spoken out of pain, and instead seeing a person’s soul.”
Shannon L. Alder

Never love someone beneath your level of evolution. If you want a monkey, you can visit one at your local zoo.

When relationships fail it is usually because someone chooses not to show up for the battle.

To love someone with all of your heart requires reaching them where they are with the only words they can understand.

“Never rearrange your life in order to meet Mr. Darcy half way. If he couldn’t see your worth at the moment you met then he won’t two years later. May the halls of Pemberly be filled with his regrets and your life filled with thankfulness because of this revelation.”
Shannon L. Alder

Lies don’t end relationships the truth does. — Lies don’t end relationships the **truth** does.

Honesty is vulnerability. Sadly, not everyone can handle someone’s honesty. However, lying allows people to be comfortable. — **Honesty** is vulnerability. Sadly, not everyone can handle someone’s honesty. However, lying allows people to be comfortable.

The depth of your pain will always be equal to the depth of your love. — The depth of your pain will always be equal to the depth of your **love**.

If you’re going to love someone or something then don’t be a slow leaking faucet – be a hurricane. — If you’re going to **love** someone or something then don’t be a slow leaking faucet – be a hurricane.

Never fall in love with someone that won’t fight for you because when the real battles begin they won’t pull your heart to safety, but they will their own.

A best friend is someone that will stand in your storm and tell you the lightning is beautiful just to make you realize that your heart was worth getting soaked.

Somewhere between love and hate lies confusion, misunderstanding and desperate hope. — Somewhere between love and hate lies confusion, misunderstanding and desperate **hope**.

A broken soul doesn’t invest in boundaries because the world has crossed them, without mercy. — A broken soul doesn’t invest in boundaries because the world has crossed them, without **mercy**.

22 WiseShannon L. Alder Quotes About Life

“Before you can live a part of you has to die. You have to let go of what could have been, how you should have acted and what you wish you would have said differently. You have to accept that you can’t change the past experiences, opinions of others at that moment in time or outcomes from their choices or yours. When you finally recognize that truth then you will understand the true meaning of forgiveness of yourself and others. From this point you will finally be free.”
Shannon L. Alder

One of the greatest regrets in life is being what others would want you to be, rather than being yourself.

Confidence is knowing who you are and not changing it a bit because of someone’s version of reality is not your reality. — **Confidence** is knowing who you are and not changing it a bit because of someone’s version of reality is not your reality.

There is no perfection, only beautiful versions of brokenness.

“The mind knows the truth when your heart denies what it feels. When you don’t feel safe to let people in it is because you’re not ready to deal with the pain of honesty.”
Shannon L. Alder

Your perspective on life comes from the cage you were held captive in. — Your perspective on **life** comes from the cage you were held captive in.

Sometimes your light shines so bright that it blinds people from seeing who you really are.

“A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionally. He is in a class all of his own because he knows the value of a woman’s heart.”
Shannon L. Alder

Often those that criticise others reveal what he himself lacks.

The most confused you will ever get is when you try to convince your heart and spirit of something your mind knows is a lie.

“Sensitive people care when the world doesn’t because we understand waiting to be rescued and no one shows up. We have rescued ourselves, so many times that we have become self taught in the art of compassion for those forgotten.”
Shannon L. Alder

The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn’t being said. The art of reading between the lines is a lifelong quest of the wise.

You can’t control other people’s actions, but you can control who 'thinks' they have control over you. — You can’t control other people’s **actions**, but you can control who ‘thinks’ they have control over you.

“Defensiveness is usually someone silently screaming that they need you to value and respect them in disguise. When you look for deeper meanings behind someone’s pain you can then begin to heal not only yourself, but others.”
Shannon L. Alder

People that have trust issues only need to look in the mirror. There they will meet the one person that will betray them the most. — People that have **trust** issues only need to look in the mirror. There they will meet the one person that will betray them the most.

You know your testimony is strong when your roots are so deep that other people’s storms will never knock you over.

“When you give yourself permission to communicate what matters to you in every situation you will have peace despite rejection or disapproval. Putting a voice to your soul helps you to let go of the negative energy of fear and regret.”
Shannon L. Alder

True confidence is not about what you take from someone to restore yourself, but what you give back to your critics because they need it more than you do. — True **confidence** is not about what you take from someone to restore yourself, but what you give back to your critics because they need it more than you do.

Insecure people only eclipse your sun because they’re jealous of your daylight and tired of their dark, starless nights.

“When you are joyful, when you say yes to life and have fun and project positivity all around you, you become a sun in the center of every constellation, and people want to be near you.”
Shannon L. Alder

Beauty is not who you are on the outside, it is the wisdom and time you gave away to save another struggling soul, like you. — **Beauty** is not who you are on the outside, it is the **wisdom** and **time** you gave away to save another struggling soul, like you.

10 Shannon L. Alder Quotes on ‘The Moment You Realize’

The moment you realize that the person you cared for has nothing intellectually or spiritually to offer you, but a headache.

The moment you realize God had greater plans for you that don’t involve crying at night or sad Pinterest quotes. — The moment you realize God had greater plans for you that don’t involve **crying** at night or sad Pinterest quotes.

The moment you stop comparing yourself to others because it undermines your worth, education and your parent’s wisdom. — The moment you stop comparing yourself to others because it undermines your worth, **education** and your parent’s **wisdom**.

The moment you live your dreams, not because of what it will prove or get you, but because that is all you want to do. People’s opinions don’t matter. — The moment you live your **dreams**, not because of what it will prove or get you, but because that is all you want to do. People’s opinions don’t matter.

The moment you realize that no one is your enemy, except yourself.

“The moment you realize that you can have everything you want in life. However, it takes timing, the right heart, the right actions, the right passion and a willingness to risk it all. If it is not yours, it is because you really didn’t want it, need it or God prevented it.”
Shannon L. Alder

“The moment you realize the ghost of your ancestors stood between you and the person you loved. They really don’t want you mucking up the family line with someone that acts anything less than honorable.”
Shannon L. Alder